Give Kids Jobs

Giving your kids jobs around the house, even when they are just toddlers, is important for the child and the family. We pay them to do the job, probably the same amount we would pay a service. At times I think professionals might do a better job, but to us, it's about the kids having responsibility to the family.

As young as two years old, you can start giving your children "jobs." At home, parents can set the rule that your child must clean up after himself. Even at one or two years old, you can encourage him to bring a toy to the shelf to help you straighten up. As he gets older, give him more challenging tasks. By three or four, you can teach him how to help you set the table, make his bed, and help you put (non-breakable) groceries away.

As your child gets older, the expectations you place on him should increase. A ten year old can take out the trash, set the table, and keep his room clean. You know your kid and what he can handle - choose jobs appropriately.

Let him know that you appreciate his help, but also that you expect him to pitch in as a productive part of the family. In addition to learning new skills, he will feel proud of his accomplishments and independence. Your children need to be responsible members of society, and when they grow up with a sense of responsibility, they will be much better off for it in the long run.